In the few decades I have spent on earth,I have met so many people- wondering if uncountable wouldn’t be an exaggeration! Though I cannot remember those I met before I went into Secondary school, I discovered that some can remember me. Just recently, a classmate of mine in nursery school, who is now married to a colleague, still remembered
My husband and I (2008)…we were not married then!
There seems to be so much that time and chance straighten out. Quite a number of my Secondary school mates that did not ‘look the part’ (I mean looking at them then, it did not look like they would go too far academically, socially, financially and even naturally). But I’m short of words when I see the transformation in those people today. They have indeed metamorphosed into great and beautiful people.
My husband and I (2011)…the year we got married!
So my message to you is that you should not think of anyone as a NOBODY. Given time and right opportunities, there is a chance or potential for greatness in everybody. Dear Ladies, don’t think less of guys that don’t have what you want yet especially when the they have God and have vision.
My husband and I (2012)…my first pregnancy!
Anytime I look at my husband’s picture of about 7years ago, I thank God that I saw beyond what he looked like then (though he was really cute) because his cuteness then is NOTHING compared to how handsome he is now- Praise God!!!!! Not only is he more handsome, he has been an Amazing Husband, Great Dad, Terrific Pastor and a Man whose impact is growing in leaps and bounds…… He is my Pride!!!! So if you say no to a guy, let it be for the right reasons and please treat him right. Don’t let him feel less of a man because you don’t want to marry him. There is another lady who would honor him as the king of her life and with how small the world is,there’s a great tendency your paths would cross later in life. When that happens, it would be better and sweeter if you can exchange pleasantries and share one another’s stories of greatness.
My husband and I (2015)…looking forward to more amazing years!
Please treat everyone right, you never know who they are or who they will be!!!